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Are Those Your Kids

Raising Biracial Kids in Today's World

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I love collaborating with others, so you’ll find my work in a variety of places. Check out the links below to see samples of my work.

Inside Edition

Reaction to Oprah interview with Prince Harry & Meghan Markle    March 2021

The Everyday Mom Life

Regular Contributor 2017-2020

Huffington Post

Interview with an Expert in Multicultural Studies    Nov 2015

7 Things Your Parents Didn’t Tell You about Raising a Biracial Child  Nov 2015

How Not to Offend Mixed-Race Families    Oct 2015

How to Teach Your Kids to Love the Skin They’re In   Oct 2015

Minimizing the Meltdown: Tips for Trips with Kids Under 5   Nov 2015

A Guide for Educators: Meeting the Needs of Biracial Kids at School  May 2016

Thrifty Nifty Mommy

Regular Contributor   Oct. 2016-2018

Red Tricycle

What Happened the Day I Stopped MicroManaging my Husband’s Parenting  June 2017

 

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Hi, I’m Diedre!

Hi, I’m Diedre!

Lifestyle + Mom Blogger

Welcome to Are Those Your Kids! This blog was created to share my experiences in motherhood, from the perspective of a mom with biracial kids. I discuss all things education, culture, multicultural resources, curly hair and motherhood.

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Back in December, Justin & I took a baecation. It Back in December, Justin & I took a baecation.

It had been a few years since we'd had a vacation without kids.

We had no idea how desperately we needed the trip to reconnect.

Having the opportunity to talk to each other uninterrupted was so magical. It felt like we were dating again.

Sometimes life gets crazy (and the past year has been rough) & you need to have these moments to reflect on.

So today, on my hubby's birthday, I celebrate him.

The father he is to our children, the husband & friend he is to me.

Here’s to my hubby who doesn't really like social media but occasionally can be bribed to participate in my reels🤣
Healthy sleep habits. Ayana & I share several ways Healthy sleep habits. Ayana & I share several ways to get a good night's rest.
I’m guilty of telling my kids to use their words I’m guilty of telling my kids to use their words, but then I don’t provide them with the words to use. It’s important to not only give your children the skill set to deal with their problems, but make sure they understand how to use it.

These conversations start when they are toddlers. When they are toddlers, talk them through scenarios. As they acquire language skills, they will begin to mimic the words that you provided to them.
When my daughters have a disagreement, I resist the urge to get frustrated and send them to their rooms. We talk through the issue and I often encourage them to talk it out.
We discuss what upset them, and I encourage them to talk to each other and let each other know how they felt. I model these conversations with them until they can do them on their own.

When I hear yelling, I remind them to use respect when speaking to each other. It’s definitely a work in progress, but the more you start teaching them effective communication  at an early age, the more empowered they will feel about advocating for their own feelings in a variety of environments.

Teaching kids social skills comes naturally in my 9-5, but it gets a bit challenging to transfer the skills at home, but I'm determined tp raise effective communicators in all my children.

Who taught you to communicate?? How do you teach your kids how to communicate?
Sometimes when we argue, I hear things about mysel Sometimes when we argue, I hear things about myself that I don't like.

And sometimes it's true, even though I don't like it.

It doesn't feel good at the time, but it makes me a better person.

No one likes being wrong or the person that hurts others, but sometimes we're so connected to our feelings that we disconnect from every one else's.

The thing about marriage is that persevering is not just about survival, but about growing through your mess.

And teaching your kids that conflicts will come, but talking through them helps you grow.

I'm thankful my husband loves me through my stubbornness & pushes me to be a better version of myself--even when I'm not in the mood to grow🤣

Who is the peacemaker in your marriage? You or your spouse?

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I have a bad habit of starting a new book before i I have a bad habit of starting a new book before i finish the last.

But this book has been on my Amazon list since last year, so I decided to grab it.

As an educator, I'm always looking for more personal development.

Last year I attended a conference & in one of the sessions, i was overwhelmed by data about how black girls are treated. Black girls are 20% of female preschool enrollment, but 54% of girls receives one or more out of school suspensions.

"In a society so shaped by race & gender, we all live with implicit biases that inform our ideas, stereotypes & norms of black feminimity."

I can't wait to dig deeper into this book!
Know what i love about spring break?? Getting to Know what i love about spring break??

Getting to watch my kids play.

Use their imagination unapologetically.

And I'm more relaxed.

There's no rushing to end play because of homework or errands or work.

So cheers to spring break!
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