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Hi, I’m Diedre!

Hi, I’m Diedre!

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Welcome to Are Those Your Kids! This blog was created to share my experiences in motherhood, from the perspective of a mom with biracial kids. I discuss all things education, culture, multicultural resources, curly hair and motherhood.

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I decided to let my hair grow as long as I can. Wh I decided to let my hair grow as long as I can. When I first went natural I loved it short on the sides & in the back with the length on the top.

Now 3 kids later, I just want to keep it up🤣

I have a love/hate relationship with wash day. I hate how long it takes, but seeing my curls bounce back make me fall in love with them all over again. 

For this wash & go I used @melaninhaircare leave in conditioner + @sheamoisture red palm oil & cocoa butter styling gelee.

I love the look, but the next day I had some residue when I refreshed, so maybe not the best combo of products to use together.....but they produce bomb results separately
I love their love!! It's been such a cool thing I love their love!! 

It's been such a cool thing to see my baby girl blossom into such a loving & nurturing big sister. 

It reminds me of the days when I helped with 3 brothers. 
Nowadays, they could take or leave my help 🤣
My girl got her hair cut yesterday! Of my 2 girls My girl got her hair cut yesterday!

Of my 2 girls, my baby girl loves a bob. Her 1st haircut almost had me I. tears, but honestly since everyone in the house (except farmer bae) have curly hair, it makes my mornings easier because now hee hair only takes about 3  minutes to do. She has 2c hair, so it's more of a wavy curly pattern. 

Her hair does better with light products like mouse, serums & a small amount of leave in. Gel keeps those curls in place.

I'm teaching my kids about their texture & what their curls need so that when they're ready they can take over & do their own hair. 

Do your kids do their own hair?
I know that my children will have a certain level I know that my children will have a certain level of privilege because of their lighter skin.

People will compliment their tan & curls because they are #biracial.

That's why teaching them the real Black history is so important to me.

And the real history isn't pretty.

Slavery, lynching, Jim Crow, racism, police dogs & spray during peaceful protests, police brutality & so much more.

As a young mom I worried about seeing their innocence by teaching them the horrors of our nation's history. Now I understand that it's absolutely necessary because one day they will vote & they need to understand history so it doesn't repeat itself. They also need to be able to use their privilege to stand up for others if they witness injustice.

So today is so much more than quotes. It's learning history & being change agents. 

It's standing up for what's right even if it conflicts with what you've always been taught.

It's showing love through your actions, not just your words.
Anyone who knows me well knows that I HATE being l Anyone who knows me well knows that I HATE being late places. 

My husband & I have has it out this week over being late & sticking to a schedule. I had a minor surgery this week to remove a large keloid from my c-section scar.

I'm recovering well, but very sore.

Having it removed (again) has brought on all sorts of feelings. Sadness because I'm done having kids, regret over having 3 c-sections,  anxiety about side effects of the procedure,  fear about things the doctors may not tell me, major discomfort to name just a few.

So I realize that our arguments about being late are more than just that.

Growing together in marriage means recognizing when outside things influence your mood, therefore affecting how you deal with each other.

Being vulnerable is hard for me sometimes,  even with my husband. I was raised to be tough.

But I can't expect him to understand all my feelings if I'm masquerading a false sense of being okay. It really is okay to say you aren't doing okay.

It doesn't have to be permanent & it doesn't mean you're a failure.

In 2021, let's start being real with ourselves & advocating for what we really need.

Do you have trouble being vulnerable at times???
Did you know that Follow the drinking gourd is a s Did you know that Follow the drinking gourd is a song? I learned it in my middle school chorus days.

It's an African American folk song first published in 1928. The Drinking Gourd is another Folklore has it that slaves in the United States used it as a point of reference so they would not get lost trying to escape.

 According to legend, the song was used by a conductor of the Underground Railroad called Peg Leg Joe to guide some fugitive slaves to freedom. 

This book is a great way to introduce your children to the Underground Railroad.

#blackhistory
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