Raising a teenager is already a challenge, but when your child is multiracial, it adds another layer of complexity. As a mom of four—a teenager, a preteen, an early elementary son, and a toddler daughter—I’ve had my fair share of conversations about race, identity, and belonging. Over the years, my kids have been asked questions that made them pause, sometimes making them feel like they didn’t quite fit in anywhere. Questions like: Then there are the … [Read more...]
Why I Don’t Care If You (Or Anyone Else) Thinks I Have Too Many Kids
How do you know if someone has too many kids? For me, I always knew that I wanted three. Thankfully, my husband and I have always been on the same page. We knew the challenges that came with raising children, so we decided to reevaluate after each child so that we didn't take on more than we could handle. When I was pregnant with my third child, I noticed looks from strangers when I was out with my girls. I was told frequently that my hands were full … [Read more...]
Everything You Need to Know About Raising a Biracial Child
Follow my blog with Bloglovin *This post contains affiliate links* Raising a biracial child is a complicated, beautiful adventure. Race and identity often become a number one priority, and parents don't always feel equipped to handle those issues, especially when confronted by biases in their own families and communities. Parenting a biracial child can prove to be challenging when you are doing it alone. Seeking out resources and befriending … [Read more...]
5 Celebrity Multiracial Moms to Follow on Instagram
A few posts ago, I shared with you all how much I love Instagram. The great thing about it is you get to connect with your friends, other moms & even a celebrity or two! Even though I can't say that any of these ladies are my actual friends, it is inspiring to see how they lead their lives (and their families) in such a positive way. They are all multiracial and are killing the mom game. Here are just a handful of my favorite celebrity multiracial … [Read more...]
How to Plan the Perfect Toddler Birthday Party Without Tears
*This post is sponsored by Oriental Trading Company. All opinions are my own* Planning a toddler birthday party should be fun event for parents, not a stressful one. However, when toddlers are involved, unpredictable events can make one nervous. Here are some tips for a stress-free, fun party day. Keep It Simple I cannot say this enough. Toddlers get overstimulated easily and they really don't care whether you spent hours on every detail. They still might … [Read more...]
Does Loving my Family Mean that I No Longer Love Myself?
Being a mother is a tricky position to play. It often means late nights, no sick days, and giving more of yourself to your family than you ever imagined. One of the hardest parts about motherhood is answering the question that we are afraid to answer: Does loving my family mean that I no longer love myself? Here are a few ways mothers sacrifice themselves for their families: … [Read more...]
Multiracial Families: Debunking 4 Common Myths & Misconceptions
Even though Multiracial families are becoming the norm, many people still hold on to stereotypes, misconceptions, and preconceived notions. It is estimated that 21% of Americans will identify as multiracial by 2050. My kids will be part of that number. Interesting isn't it? Back in 1967, there were actually state laws that banned interracial marriage. These laws weren't overturned until the Supreme Court case, Loving vs. Virginia in 1967. In that case, the … [Read more...]
A Foolproof Guide for Getting Along with Your Mother in Law
Marriage is a beautiful thing, yet complicated endeavor. It brings two people together, from different walks of life, who want to spend a lifetime together. Combining cultures in marriage can be difficult, especially if you've had minimal exposure to the culture you have married into. … [Read more...]
Communication Boost: How to Maximize Conversation With Your Child
Creating an environment that teaches our children to communicate can be difficult. As they get older, they start to keep their thoughts and feelings to themselves. Instead of talking to their parents like they did as toddlers, they find friends to confide in. Moms can challenge this by showing their kids that their voice matters and they’re valuable. Here are a few things moms can do with their family to boost communication with their children. … [Read more...]