Both of my parents were born and raised in Jamaica, but came to the states as adults. I never really thought about how my Jamaican family was different from others until I was told me no about something that most other parents said yes to. My father was in the Air Force, so many of my friends had parents from different countries, which brought about their cultural norms. As an adult no longer surrounded by other military families, I have … [Read more...]
How Growing Up In a Jamaican Family Influenced My Marriage
Blending cultures in a marriage can be a complicated feat whether both families are open or accepting or not. The key is to respect each other, and compromise with your spouse on the important issues. My mom always told me that she always knew she wanted to marry another Jamaican, that was a non-negotiable. She didn't want to have to explain her culture to someone else. The moment I married into a family and moved to South Georgia, I understood her sentiments … [Read more...]