Follow my blog with Bloglovin *This post contains affiliate links* Raising a biracial child is a complicated, beautiful adventure. Race and identity often become a number one priority, and parents don't always feel equipped to handle those issues, especially when confronted by biases in their own families and communities. Parenting a biracial child can prove to be challenging when you are doing it alone. Seeking out resources and befriending … [Read more...]
How to Teach Your Kids to Love the Skin They’re In
*This post contains Amazon affiliate links. This means that I may receive a small commission (at no cost to you) if you subscribe or purchase something through the links on this page.* This post was also published by the Huffington Post. As parents, it's our job to teach our kids (and educators) how to love the skin they're in. If this wasn't a lesson you were taught as a child, it may be difficult to know where to start. As a school counselor, the … [Read more...]
Smashing Through Stereotypes: Why I’ll Push My Biracial Kids to Break Them
*This post was sponsored by Mitz apparel & accessories. As always, all opinions are my own. Raising a child is a complicated, beautiful adventure. Raising a biracial child is an adventure that comes with a few complicated twists and turns. Race and identity often become a number one priority, and parents don’t always feel equipped to handle the stereotypes that people have and are directed towards their children. The world is quick to put your child in a … [Read more...]
Every Mother Has a Story to Tell: A Story About Race
Today on the blog I am welcoming Meghan Joy Yancy from Meghan Joy Today. She’s sharing her story about race. The Reality of Race & Skintone I was always so curious as to what they would look like. With the mixture of my husbands’ dark chocolate complexion and my German nearly translucent skin tone, the possibilities were endless of what our darling children would look like. This perfect and beautiful mixture of colors to create any number of … [Read more...]
8 Books Every Multiracial Family Needs In Their Collection
*This post contains Amazon affiliate links.* I remember when my husband and I were preparing for our first baby. We stocked up on diapers, clothes & books. We understood the importance of embracing our multiracial family and celebrating all families in their uniqueness. Representation matters. Even if you aren't in a multiracial family, it's important to show your children diversity through literature. This is especially important if you are … [Read more...]
Multiracial Families: Debunking 4 Common Myths & Misconceptions
Even though Multiracial families are becoming the norm, many people still hold on to stereotypes, misconceptions, and preconceived notions. It is estimated that 21% of Americans will identify as multiracial by 2050. My kids will be part of that number. Interesting isn't it? Back in 1967, there were actually state laws that banned interracial marriage. These laws weren't overturned until the Supreme Court case, Loving vs. Virginia in 1967. In that case, the … [Read more...]
Discussing #Blacklivesmatter With My Mixed Kids
Yes, I agree that all lives matter. But in the wake of the things happened to black people in this country, it's a little insensitive to say that all lives matter is an appropriate response. I'm not quite sure why when I grieve for the black men & women killed unjustly, I'm looked at as biased for expressing that #blacklivesmatter. It's hard for me to not be biased. I am a black woman and I have 3 black brothers, a black father, and black male friends. … [Read more...]
You Know You’re in a Multiracial Family When…
Have you ever heard of Loving Day? I didn't until recently. It's an annual celebration held on June 12, the anniversary of the 1967 Supreme Court decision of Loving v. Virginia, which struck down all laws forbidding marriage between people non-white and white. For a multiracial family like mine, this day is super meaningful! People often remark that when you love who you love, it doesn't matter, and the world shouldn't either. I believe that is the case, but being … [Read more...]
The Colourful Life: A Book Series About Mixed Race Families
Good evening everyone! I usually make new posts on Sundays, but I had to take a night off to tend to mommy duties this weekend. Melody had pink eye in both eyes (insert gasp here). I'm happy to report the drops have worked and her eyes look great! Nothing a little R&R, ice cream and eye drops couldn't fix. Now down to business. I've had the lovely opportunity to read and review two books about Multiracial families. The series is entitled, The Colourful … [Read more...]