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6 Ways to Teach Your Kid to Be Culturally Competent Like a Boss

May 22, 2016 Comments : 15

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As a mom, life gets busy. A lot. So why is being culturally competent important? And why should I spend the time making sure my kids are culturally competent?

As a human being, it’s my responsibility.

The world is diverse, and it’s my job to teach my kids how to navigate in that world.

Not doing so puts my children at a huge disadvantage.

Growing up on an Air Force Base, being culturally competent came naturally to me. Every neighbor was either in an interracial relationship, had lived/traveled abroad, or spoke more than 1 language. Being culturally competent may seem like a foreign idea to some. You many not think it’s important because you live in a small, rural area. Or, your community may be filled with people who look and sound like you.

Being culturally competent may seem like a foreign idea to some. You many not think it’s important because you live in a small, rural area. Or, your community may be filled with people who look and sound like you.

Expose your children to the world around them through diversity and immersion. Read about 6 ways you can teach your kids to be culturally competent.

However, at some point, your children may move outside of that community. Don’t you want them to have every opportunity that is available to them? I’m sure you don’t want their experiences to be limited due to lack of exposure.

Here are 6 ways you can help your child to be culturally competent:

Learn a Language as a Family

Thanks to technology, this is relatively easy. You can purchase Rosetta Stone (they even have home school curriculum!).

If you don’t have the funds to purchase that program,  there are a plethora of free resources on YouTube.

You can also purchase channels through streaming devices (such as Roku) that introduce your kids to a variety of languages.

Happy Kids tv & Little Pim are two channels that my kids enjoy and they are totally free!

Visit Local Historic Sites

America is a melting pot, therefore it is rich in many different cultures. You can find historic sites to visit in your own state without traveling very far.

Savannah, Georgia is known for its St. Patrick’s Day parade and activities.

One year my husband and I actually met someone from Ireland while attending St. Patrick’s day activities.

Learn about Different Cultures through Food

Take your kids to restaurants with authentic cuisine. Have them practice speaking a language that you have learned at home.

Encourage them to ask questions about the food on the menu. My favorite experience is the time we went to a Peruvian restaurant in Patterson, NJ.

Neither my husband or I are fluent in Spanish, but we pride ourselves on our basic communication skills. I decided to order my water with lemon (agua con lemon) in Spanish. When my drink came out, it was lemonade!

I didn’t even consider that Spanish dialect differs from country to country. Thankfully the food was delicious and I was happy with my lemonade.

Attend Multicultural Festivals

Attending a  multicultural festival is the perfect way to experience immersion. This will help your children to have an appreciation for cultures that differ from their own. Spend time discussing the experience with your kids after the festival. The last festival I attended was on campus at Georgia Southern University.

If you reside in a college town, the university is chock full of cultural experiences. Most campuses even have an International Department. Check with them for a calendar of events throughout the year.IMG_4388
Travel

If your budget allows, this is the best form of immersion. My parents are Jamaicans and all my extended family are Jamaicans. Most of my immediate and extended family are in the United States. I visited as a child, but had no memory.

When my husband and I took a vacation to Montego Bay & Ocho Rios in my 20’s, all the stories I heard about Jamaica came to life. Reading about Jamaica, looking at pictures and talking to family members did not hold a candle to experiencing it myself.

6 ways to teach your kids to be culturally competent like a boss

 

Explore your Own Cultural Background

You may be surprised at what investigating your roots will reveal! A friend of mine recently did a search through ancestry.com and was surprised to find out that she had a blond haired blue eyed cousin when mostly everyone in her family has brown skin.

When I went to Jamaica, I  felt connected to the country in so many ways.

I heard everyone singing and I felt at peace. My friends often tease me for having a song for every conversation.

Music has always been a huge part of my life and I realized that it was in my blood. When we left the resort, I was in tears because I felt like I was leaving a piece of my heart there. I returned two years later with my daughter. 

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As an educator, I know that modeling is a powerful tool in teaching kids appropriate behaviors.

Modeling cultural competence is the best way to teach your kids how to take an interest in differences.

Sometimes discrimination is bred from ignorance and lack of exposure. Expose your children to the world around them!

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Comments

  1. Catherine says

    May 23, 2016 at 3:04 am

    I absolutely love your list. We try to expose our 3.5 year old to as many different cultural experiences as we can, within our limited budget. I think it’s so, so important! I hadn’t even thought about learning a language as a family, though. What a fantastic idea! Thanks so much for this. I’ll definitely be pinning it for later.

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    • Diedre says

      May 23, 2016 at 3:05 am

      Catherine, thanks for stopping by! That’s amazing that you’re thinking of this early. Kudos to you! You’re ahead of the curve.

      Reply
  2. Michele says

    May 23, 2016 at 3:21 am

    Totally love this. I was the little rural girl that had no culture. Seriously if my grandmother made spaghetti that was ethnic food to us. My husband is half Thai, born in Thailand and an army brat, so he has been to 5 continents, and I have left the country once. Yes he makes fun of me. I really wish my parents had your list when I was a kid!

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    • Diedre says

      May 23, 2016 at 3:26 am

      Thanks Michele! Now that you have the knowledge, you can share it with your children. Every generation seeks to be better than the last. Seriously, the spaghetti comment made me laugh. Thanks so much for stopping by!

      Reply
  3. Shajauna says

    May 24, 2016 at 1:43 am

    I love this post! I have to admit that this is something that I have not thought very much about, but I agree wholeheartedly. Thanks for starting the conversation in my household and the great ideas!

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    • Diedre says

      May 24, 2016 at 2:33 am

      Shajauna, thank you so much for stopping by! Starting the conversation is a step in the right direction!

      Reply
  4. Diana Brown says

    May 24, 2016 at 2:38 am

    I love the article. I am teaching first graders by exposing them to music and the culture of Jamaica. They are fascinated and and are showing more interest in other cultures. I also use books. There are so many books available through scholastic.com.

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    • Diedre says

      May 24, 2016 at 2:42 am

      Great point! Thank you for reading feel free to share with your fellow educators.

      Reply
  5. Lisa Lewis, MD says

    May 29, 2016 at 3:50 pm

    This is a fantastic list, especially for those who are wanting to start educating their kids about the world. I agree, modeling is at the top of the list. The tips are very helpful.

    Reply
    • Diedre says

      May 29, 2016 at 3:58 pm

      Thank you for the kind words Lisa!

      Reply
      • Shelley says

        April 2, 2019 at 4:52 pm

        I am go glad I came across your Instagram account and blog today. You have a new fan! 🙂

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        • Diedre says

          April 3, 2019 at 1:33 pm

          Thank you Shelley!! <3

          Reply

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